The most common first response to the discovery of an affair is shock, often even after early suspicions have been on the emotional radar. Once the discovery has been made, we begin to reflect on the past & present with a new fear of how far the deceptions & dishonesty have gone. A sense of Continue Reading
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When couples get stuck, Dr Johnson’s work has shown that couples end up in one of 3 basic conflictual patterns. These patterns are common to some degree in all marriages but in stable marriages, partners recognize the misstep and adjust their participation in the relationship to be more available. The three basic patterns that couples get stuck Continue Reading